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JSS's avatar

Oh Gabrielle! There’s the basis of a wonderful book here.

Gabrielle Donnelly's avatar

Good idea, JSS! Maybe I'll hire my North Dakota friend as a ghost writer.

K E Koblitz's avatar

Lovely memory

Sharon Joslyn's avatar

Love it Gabrielle. Also cant help thinking that Midwesterners are a little like the Irish. Many years ago, on a trip back to Ireland, a woman pulled up in a car, would down her window and said to my father, "I know you, do you know me?" Still makes me laugh, remembering this guarded exchange.

Gabrielle Donnelly's avatar

That's a funny story, Sharon. And reminds me of the time one of my brothers sent my father a birthday card addressed to Patrick Donnelly, to receive the grave rebuke that "I think that P.A. Donnelly is as much as the Post Office needs to know...."

Sharon Joslyn's avatar

That’s funny Gabrielle. I grew up being told on a semi-regular basis to tell no-one our business. 😀

Gabrielle Donnelly's avatar

and in our family, Sharon - and maybe it was only our family - the injunction to tell no one our own business was adjoined to a curtain-twitching investment into the business of other people, communicated with a disapproving snort of "But they'd want to keep *that* dark!!" Here in California, I tell more or less everyone more or less everything, and life is much easier.

Cynthia Medeiros's avatar

Hi, I finally got in! Anyway, I am bemused at your "Yahs" of the North Dakota folk, ha. Your experience of the laying to rest of Agnes after all these years -- expressed so well. XOXO Cynthia

Gabrielle Donnelly's avatar

Thanks, Cynthia, I'm glad you liked it!